Woman charging for the jobs they provide naturally.

The creating woman’s work as individual jobs allows modern relationships and dating to occur. Men can leave or cheat and she can walk away still with a house and car vs giving her entire time energy effort into building a person other than herself up and she’s compensated so she can move on without devistation of physical attributes even if her heart hurts she can eat.

This also allows her to stand up for herself without risk loosing her home or being manipulated and or betrayed.

Money is the best invention ever it allows us to collect for our skills and purchase things that we require like our own home or food to eat without having to be a farmer or build shelter out of mud. Or learn how to bend steel and create concrete from rocks . Money simplifies our life and woman have to deeply acknowledge it’s what keeps you off the street and in a nice home but a man not a family not a mother. It’s money that buys these things any one who withholds money from you doesn’t value you and your independence get far from them.

I want the woman to take having children as a job this way they can seperate the emotion and be compensated healthy and create better minds for our future! I perfer that each one of you can accomplish while in a relationship they like the outcomes and men they are with. First I want you woman to think of men as the ones who’s trying to take your money out of your pocket if you don’t get clear transaction plan with requiring payment in an account to have access to your womb in a monogumas relationship transaction.  keep your legs closed until you have down payment to start having sex with one man you like and get along with in a relationship. To have payments in an account to cover first three months of pregnancy expenses after, only after you have seen he’s Somone of his word Somone the bank would lend money to.  this stops the manipulation the fights and the woman and her new born or three year old of going without.  Men who can’t support or ( pay the womb machine fees) the The vending baby machine can’t operate. This is how strong I want every woman’s mind to be when it comes to having sex. You treat it like an access point he can’t get to unless he’s paying the fees .. and you’re fit for the job because of who you are not just an opposite sex person .. you both genuinely have aligned interests know your self and what you want and require. If a man agrees to this and implements it his intentions are to take care of you while you bring a creation the two of you make  (but your happy without  child but can take on the job) it’s a job for him otherwise you would go work at your own buisness or a store investing in yourself. The baby is only for his needs so he has to pay, if he’s truly a person of integrity he will desire for that child to be in a healthy home clean space in good neighbourhood a woman can walk outside and the child has the education funds in an account ready for primary school and building a year before fees are due . Men who can’t afford to bring children in the world do not deserve to have sex until they can learn how to push themself to earn the money in a stable way.  Make sure you see the money in the account and can access it as he is deposit only. Woman Learn how to hold money without spending. Have your own house or rent with your own keys. If the two of you live together have that excess money you collect ready in case you have to find your own  place.  You need to be able to say what ever you want in peace and stand up for yourself always.

. If your from a culture which is known for it being difficult getting money from a man start building structures like I just said and get having a child planned out (not when emotionally charged) before you even have sex.

Now if you’re a weak woman and you fall prey to your desire to be intimate with a man who is using his best skills on you to get inside you and give you a child. Then you have to be more powerful or you will go without because your an easy target for a man to get what he wants without paying. These are men who want a deal on everything, everything for free because they are for free you will have difficulty getting dollars out of him never mind full payments. If you’re afraid of men raping you then You’re going to attract that. Instead learn self defense get on YouTube and learn how to take down a man if he touches you. Don’t be in spaces that are conducive to men touching being not sober and getting away with things.  Have a huge personal space barrier don’t let people get close and stand up for that no matter what culture says it’s what saved me many times I made many men upset because when they got close I made visual and energetic space between us. I even took men over 6 ft off his feet into a wall. Protect the things that are qualified as jobs  having children, giving great advise, making meals, listening to their needs. Start writing all the things you do and how much you want to be paid for them. A person who admires you will happily pay if someone doesn’t want to give you cash they want to manipulate you and control you which means you are not of value as you are so they want to change you, that is not a fun boss not a fun manager not a person you want to work for  or sleep with, so go find Someone or a place of business that will treat you well and pay you on time.

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